Badass Poser

Every now and again the boys turn the music on loud and "do a dance party."

Other times, Wren suddenly decides to dress "like a bad dude."

This was one of those moments.  Music and badass.  It was the first time Wren totally dressed himself (jeans over his pajamas, bling and flip flops).  He is wearing the dragon shirt he received as a birthday present.  Perhaps it was the shirt that inspired the badassness.

Wren:  See, I am a bad guy.
Josh: Well, you should try holding your gun like this then and
let me help you do up your pants.

 

Wren:  I hold it like this?
Josh:  Yes.  And who made your hat?
Wren:  Mom made it.  Its Mom's hat.

Wren:  Wait, wait.  I have one more.  How does this one look? 
Did you get that one?  Let me see!

Wren is Five Years Old

Wren dressed as the Birthday Boy for his birthday ceremony at school

In case you missed this fact.  Wren has turned FIVE.

There is no appreciable difference in him although he wondered whether he had grown 3 inches on the morning of his birthday.  He felt that there should be a visible change.

Here are some pictures of him on his birthday and at school.

There were honey buns for snack at school on Wren's birthday

Wren showing us the book he received from Grandad Peter.  We are
also showing Grandad Peter because International Family do not
always have the luxury of seeing their gift.

Wren with the school pig.

Christmas Shopping with The Boys

Today was my first real day of vacation.  As a very part-time worker, that means the first day I was not trying to do two things at once.  I planned to focus on Christmas Holidays.

Of course, then plans changed.

One of my clients was offered a fabulous opportunity to pitch our products at a national level and so I ended up on the phone and laptop for much of the morning instead of taking coffee on the Eastside while Wren hammered out some Minecraft and Frost played MTG.

All was not lost.  By 2.45pm we had hit the 520 bridge and were crossing from the eclectic outdoorsy nonconformism of Seattle to the high-end mall of Bellevue Square.   It was busy.  Driving over the 520 bridge we noticed the flashing signs announcing tolling would commence on December 29th.  New speed limit signs have been installed which can change the speeds to compensate for traffic volume.  Frost and Wren chanted whenever the speed limits changed.  At one point they flashed from 40 mph to 30 mph as I approached causing the boys to shriek a warning.

Parking at B-S was awful.  Two entrances were closed with LOT FULL signs up and we had to loop the block to enter of 4th Ave NE rather than wait in the endless line to turn into the main entrance.  We let the luck duck out of the window to find us a parking and pretty soon an elderly couple waved us after them as they walked back to their car.

We were parked!

Our first stop was The Lego Store.  It was standing room only.  Wren had some money to spend - his birthday money from Great Granny Charlotte.  He wanted to buy "fighting man lego".   We looked around and he finally settled on a Pirates of the Caribbean Set which will have to be built with assistance.  It has "a cage of bones."

We had dinner at Boom Noodle and then headed to Sephora to buy some scent for me.  Frost and Wren tested lots of scents and Frost managed to squirt Wren in the eye with something from DKNY which burned a lot.  A nice aesthetician popped Wren up on a stool and tried to dab his eye clean with a cotton pad spritzed with water but I didn't think it was working so I licked his eye clean which rather horrified him.  At some point during the Sephora interlude, Frost got lost and ran out of money to buy my gift so he was stressed and upset when he finally found me.

He got lost again after leaving me at the Red Mango store with all the bags and saying "I am going to find Sephora."  He thought I would stay still there, anchored somewhat by material objects and sloppy frozen yogurt but he underestimated my desire to continue with our mission.

We also discovered a gourmet oil and vinegar store which was weird because I have had "Gourmet Oil and Vinegar" on my wish list for AGES and never thought a specialist store would exist.  Frost and Wren tasted vinegars and oils, much to the amusement and appreciation of the staff.  They said "Children generally tune out in our store."

Frost at the oil and vinegar bar in Bellevue Square.

Wren liked truffle oil but his favorite was fig infused vinegar.  Frost's favorite was blood orange oil.   I let each of them buy their favorite for my birthday present.   Frost ate a lot of extra bread and oil to make sure he really liked them.  Wren kept losing bits of bread from the poky toothpicks into the oils.  The bread was really nano-croutons, not big enough to poke with a toothpick so it was not surprising.

I am also unsure whether he changed his toothpick often enough.

Oddly, I met three people who commented that I was "from South Africa?"  Seriously, in months in Seattle nobody has made a point of it.  The oil store carries a range from the Cape and the guy in the Microsoft Store guessed I was South African.  Finally, a fellow customer in the Stride Rite Store (where we got Wren snow boots on sale) wanted to talk about all her South African jewish friends at the JCC.

We came home and the boys played.... Minecraft & Halo.

Beezle is going crazy with fierce love of the plasticized fabric on the underside of his puppy bed.  He wants to kill the fucker since he has been denied access to badgers for his whole life, really.  Its so unfair.

Blogging on the blogger iPhone app

It was extremely icy this morning when I woke Wren for the antibiotic premed for his 9 AM dentist appointment. It was his eighth dentist appointment in the space of three months as his fillings keep falling out. We are not sure why but at least he's getting better at having them done, repeatedly.

Before we left he begged to bring the iPad so he could listen to the Yogcast Minecraft podcasts but I explained they need wifi to work so we brought Beazle as a therapy dog instead.

Driving home, the sky was a brilliant blue and we can see the neighborhood reflected in the chrome Christmas decorations hanging on the bare cherry tree.

I recorded this blog post on my iPhone.

The 2,592 Thousand Seconds of Christmas

This evening I have ditched making dinner and baked Gingerbread instead.  With days so short and school only letting out a week before Christmas, it seems there is never enough time for Holiday activities like baking and cutting paper snowflakes and shopping for gifts together (instead of making an Amazon Wishlist and sending out cards (not e-cards) and going skating and for light displays and making decorations for the tree and all that.

Everything gets squeezed into a few days of high drama, hence, the gingerbread at 5pm.

"Can I eat another gingerbread man?" Frost asks, wondering how far my festive spirit will take me.
"After dinner." I insist, leaving the exact nature of dinner ambiguous.

The sink is overflowing with mixing bowls, baking trays, spoons and a whisk still dripping with white frosting and I am counting on serving Wren and Joshua with the leftover lamb and beef cottage pie I brought home from the PTA Christmas Party last night.  Frost and I will have to do some kind of exploratory cooking with a can of beans and a panini press.

The sun set two hours ago and its only 6.15pm, the holiday lights I hooked onto the eaves of the house have turned on with their timer (installed today) and we just bought and decorated our tree.

I squeezed it in on a Tuesday night after school - already dark at 4.30pm when we arrived, Wren said "I am freezing I will wait in the car!" but I didn't let him. 

The boys ate two candy canes (each) and had a fight over trees - Wren wanted a tall skinny one while Frost wanted a "bushy one with more room for decorations."   Wren reviled the word "Bushy" and kept shouting "I HATE the BUSHY ONE".   I asked the Christmas Elf assisting us to give us a moment and toured the aisles of trees for a compromise TALL, and full figured one.  Thankfully it was one of the cheapest in the yard - a mere $25 for a 7 foot tree (which is actually 8 ft because it hits our ceiling and had to be trimmed.)

Our Christmas tree with some birthday presents around it.

Is Father Christmas Real
Wren has been battling the tradition of Father Christmas.  Yesterday, he asked me:

Wren:  Mom, tell me the truth of this.  Does Father Christmas 'xist?  I think he does NOT.

One day he will tell me that Father Christmas is not real and that "Mom brings the presents" while the next he will tell me that he knows that he exists because he "sees him with his minds eye".  This mind's eye thing is a recent concept he came up with to explain the fact that his Waldorf teachers at preschool insist there are fairies while others (like me) can't see them.  Wren says you see them "in your minds eye".

This morning the Mind's Eye took on new significance in this conversation:

Wren:  I am getting ALL the mods on my Christmas List.  All the toys except the Ninjago Fire Fortress (a $110 Lego set I said "no way" to."

Shannon:  Who said that?  Did Daddy say that?

Wren:  Father CHRISTMAS said that.

Shannon:  Father Christmas spoke to you?

Wren:  I hear him and GOD with my Mind's EAR.  He is the Boss of Winter and now its Winter so he said I can have all the presents on my list except that Fire Fortress.

Shannon:  I think he's wrong honey.  You can't get all the toys on that list.

Wren:  Well, if he is WRONG then GOD Does Not 'ZIST!

Shannon:  [WTF?]   What has that got to do with it?

Wren:  Well, Father Christmas and God do not lie and make mistakes.  Does Jesus LIE? 

Shannon:  No.

Wren:  And you said that that they is WRONG and I do not get all the presents so then THEY DO NOT ZIST.

Shannon:  Maybe you didn't hear them right?

Wren:  I do.    I have a minds eye and a mind's ear and with my mind's ear I can hear moles digging in the underground "dig, dig, dig" and I can use my mind money - it cost 190 points - to get minds feeling so you can feel the earth turning and the sun turning and the trees growing with their magic.  And I can see father Christmas and fairies with my mind's eye!

I must now go and microwave that Shepherds Pie!

Wren drew this Rat King / Lizard King character and asked us to
make it so Josh and I made it from FIMO.  He is going to stand up
to be used in D&D miniatures

Wren doing a forced smile at Swansons where we went for lunch

I am DONE now.  I demand a cookie.  Stop taking pictures of me
with your stupid iPhone 4S 10 mpx camera

I am a fish.  How many days till Christmas?
How many hours in a day, again?

When are you going to die of oldness?

Wren:  Mum when are you going to die of oldness?

Shannon:  Me?

Wren:   Yes, you.  When you get more crinkly?

Shannon:  I don't know.  In a long time.  When do you think?

Wren:  This December?  This year.

Shannon:  You think that I will die of oldness this year!!

Wren:  No, get more crinkly.  Like this...
[Wren draws wiggly lines on the paper]

Shannon:  Oh, WRINKLY.
[thinking how to approach this]

Shannon:  I don't think I will get suddenly wrinkly this year.  Am I wrinkly now?

Wren:  Your forehead looks kind of wrinkly.  Do I look wrinkly on my face?

Shannon:  No, you don't.  Why is that?

Wren:  I don't know. Maybe that is because I haven't grown up to my maximum size.  People grow up to their maximum size and then they grow crinklier and crinklier and crinklier.

Shannon:  How crinkly do you get before you die?

Wren:  As grown up as you can get.  Like this... I am this tall then grow -->  Grow --> GROW till super tall.  

Shannon:  I have stopped getting taller any more.  What happens then?

Wren:  You just get older and older and older and then......  I don't know.

"I am just being sarcactus"

Wren has spent most of the last 2 days in pajamas.  This is in reaction to having to get dressed for preschool in the dark most mornings.  Winter is a real drag at the moment even though we have been enjoying brilliant icy mornings with saphire blue skies which look all the brighter against the crimson maples still in leaf.

Beezle admires the fall color at Greenlake

Wren is almost 5 years old.  If he lived in  less than a month he could be going to Kindergarten.  He is talkative, obsessed with Minecraft and canned cream and uses many long words coined from Frost.

Today, he said something terrible to Frost and then said "I am just being sarcactus."
On interrogation he explained that Frost had told him "Being sarcactus means you are saying bad stuff by joking."

"I am a duuuude.  I am dressed for dancing. 
I am in a dance club.  I like to dance to Revenge - this song about
a Minecraft guy who has a diamond sword and at the end
of the song he kills a bunch of Creepers."

I wasn't sure he had it right.

Why does everyone want to ask the AI the meaning of life?

I have my new phone and the boys have taken it over to chat to Siri.  It had lots of trouble understanding me - perhaps its the accent or that my requests to find things were not commonplace.  Frost also finds it more successful on esoteric matters and ventures there.

He started off with the big questions "Siri, what is the meaning of life?"  Siri replied that it was 42 and then advised that the boys show kindness to living things and live a life of good intentions.

Wren then asked "What is the meaning of DOG?"

After thinking a moment Siri produced a fact sheet about dogs which included the information that:

"A domesticated carnivorous mammal (Canis familiaris) related to the foxes and wolves and raised in a wide variety of breeds. "

I have to go to the bathroom" Frost shouts to me.

"Sorry, I couldn't find any public toilets around here." Siri announces.

This started Frost off on another tangent.  "Mom" he shouts from the bathroom in an echoey way. "You can use this to FIND PLACES!  Where is Boom Noodle?"

It misheard him a few times and came up with odd misspellings of nothing.

Frost said: "I am going to kill you"

And received a sanguine: "Okay."

"Wanna watch TV."

"I have found a number of electronics stores close to me."

"I play the drum!"

Siri played music.

"Mom, mom!  You can make the phone play music!"

Wren is happy because it has Angry Birds.

I am still a bit confused by the thing.  It has imported my gmail contact list as my contacts which means I can txt everyone but have no phone numbers.  I am able to browse my new Audubon Mushroom guide wherever we go but am cagey about uploading my "sightings" as they are shared on a GPS enabled map, giving away location of any choice edibles.

I have taken some pictures of Wren and I and they seem crisp.  At least my blog will have pictures again if I can figure out how to synch iPhoto via the iCloud which is not yet interfacing with MobileMe.

I asked Siri for help with my contacts and she replied that she was not allowed to make contacts.

I am sure Siri could garble up a nice saying along the lines of "The road to hell is a cloud lined with good intentions."

Learning Math aka "Killing me slowly, with his ways"

Frost started his schooling at an alternative school which emphasized math creativity and understanding.  Kids sorted marbles into bottles representing 10s and 100s and counted macaroni threaded on yarn.  Frost was encouraged to form his own methods for adding and solving problems and generally thinking about math.  He did.  He figured out ways to move numbers around long before he was taught the established ways.  Even my Dad was impressed by his "mental math" with large numbers.

Fast forward to 5th Grade and these techniques are getting in the way.

He is doing story problems with decimal long division and multiplication.  The typical questions are about people buying items with sales tax and discounts.  They involve finding the new price by calculating 9.25% of $19.99 and stuff like that.   Josh and I both recognized that these problems are easily solved by doing the grunt-work of math - the layout, the algorithm, the carrying and solving.

Frost resents this.  He hates doing the straight long multiplication.  He breaks things up into funny simpler functions and adds them up - typically making mistakes along the way.  About half the time he solves the whole problem in his head correctly.  The other half of the time they are incorrect and either show no working method (ie, are just plain wrong) or use a contorted sequence of logical steps that he has devised.

NOT the algorithm.

Today, I dropped into the 'advanced learning' school to pick up some books.   I met a 4th Grade girl working in the corridor.  She came up to me in some excitement and said "look how much work this problem is taking me!"   Indeed, her lined page was covered on both sides with detailed, neatly laid out sums.   They all seemed to be a huge number subtracting 20.

"What on earth are you doing?"  I asked.

She was a bit confused by my lack of enthusiasm.

"I am solving a problem!  This is how much MATH IT TAKES!!!"  she asserted, waving the page at me.

"What's the problem?" I wondered, secretly thinking that we never did such long sums in 4th grade and WTF was she doing?

"Oh, these people have $10,000 and we need to know how many weeks it will take them to spend it all if they spend $20 a week.  SOOO I am subtracting $20 each time.  Look!"

I look, and indeed all the multitude of sums are subtractions, $10,000 - $20 = $99 980  $99 980-$20= for two whole pages!!!! 

"But why do it that way?"  I asked.  "Why not divide? Just divide it by 20!"

"No, I am using SUBTRACTION!" She affirms with mistaken confidence.

"What about dividing by 2?"  I ask, freaking out politely.  This kid is in advanced learning 4th Grade, she should rebel if being asked to break down $10, 000 by $20 doing the dum sum 500 times.   Even if she can't divide 10,000 by 20, intelligence demands that she rebel!

But she doesn't.  She prances off waving her pages of sums, committed to solving the problem using the alogrithm du jour, subtraction.

So, I don't want Frost to be like that.  I want him to say "this is dumb, there must be an easier way" but I also want him to listen to me when I tell him that he is in the hard way, that sometimes you have to exercise the brain to show it how to make something easy (like the classification of mushrooms or the mechanics of algebra).

Often we have to do a bit of hard work to get to the easy path.

Frost does not believe me, yet.

Mushroom Season

Its mushroom season in Seattle.  The season when I forage wild mushrooms for the pot, identify them and do botanical illustrations.  The season seems to be getting going a bit late this year, perhaps due to the later arrival of the rains and some unseasonal warmth in September.  

Still, I have already eaten 4 lbs of gathered chanterelles and frozen many more pounds from a sale on chanterelles on Vashon island.  (Mum, I picked in the same place we went on Vashon last year, there were fewer but we went on the last day before the park was closed for two weeks for hunting season).   I have also gathered boletes, Chlorrophylum Brunneum (shaggy Parasol), birch boletes (leccinum scabrum) and some others for the art rather than the pot.

Beezle has been accompanying me into the woods and has proven to be a great undergrowth dog.  He can squeeze under most logs and through ferns without impediment.  He hangs out with us and does not go far astray.  He sniffs at mushrooms and even tried to eat the boletes in my basket.  He has good taste!

Chanterelles for breakfast with some birch boletes and slippery jack

These coprinus micaceaus were a bit watery on toast.

Just today, jogging around Greenlake, I collected my first boletus edulis (porcini).  It had been disturbed by the lawnmower tractor which had clipped the button in the grass near a pine.  I found a few larger (still small) ones nearby with the distinctive white reticulations at the apex and am going to eat them for dinner.

I have advertised on the PSMS mycoweb list for companions to practice mushroom ID during the week in local parks.  I am failing to advance as much as possible due to lack of keen company.  Already, I have three people who would like to join me so I am anticipating a few more weeks of mushrooming before the frosts.

I believe this is Zellers Bolete due to characteristics and the wrinkled cap

I suspect these are porcini buttons.  From Greenlake area.  I have cleaned them
up after ID.  They were a bit damaged by the lawn-mower tractor.

Anyone interested, come and stay with us for Mushroom Season next year!